I have just finished the week of Shiva, which in Judaism is the week of mourning in memory of my father, Morris, who passed away at the age of 85. For the first few days of the week my brother David was there, but he went back to New York and my mother, sister and I sat through prayers on a daily basis and had many people visit and pay their respects. There were many family members, co-workers of my dad, sister and my world, as well as many people from our respective communities of faith.
I had plenty of time to listen to great stories about my dad and of course, many stories about my family were shared, some of which I knew nothing of before. There was a tremendous outpouring of sympathy and support for which I will forever be grateful for.
But I also had plenty of time to think about what the passing of my dad could mean to me. There are times when I am sad, and sometimes I just get a little teary eyed for what appears to be no reason at all. But for the most, I am grateful to have had my dad for the 53 years that I did, and I know that he was someone who accomplished so much, on so many different levels. I know that even though his physical presence is gone, his spirit will live long.
It also became crystal clear to me what I must seek to do to make sure that what he has started continues to grow, whether it is with family, community or faith. Usually when I have used the apple does not fall far from the tree, it has been regarding poor types of behavior. But in our community my father was not just a tree, he was a very large tree. And I really hope that as the apple I did not fall far from the tree. I know that it is my responsibility now to help the forest grow. It is in this way that I can best honor my father.
John and Sandy,
So sorry to hear about your lost.
My deep condolences.
Joelle
Sandy and John, Sending your family loving thoughts at this time.
Rocky & Stacy
I’m so sorry for your loss, Jon and Sandy. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…my thoughts are with you, Sandy and your family during this time. Love, Ann Marie Nelsen
To the Engle Family,
I have had the pleasure and honor of meeting your Father and Mother in our office building and in one of our programs. It was always such a pleasure to see the loving care your Father recieved from your Family, especially your Mother. He was so cared for! I have now had the pleasure of being taken care of by Dr. Engle and his staff! My teeth, gums, smile and face have never been happier or healthier. I enjoy the warm family like reception everytime I go into the clinic!
I am so sorry about the physical loss of your husband and Father. You are so fortunate to have so many wonderful memories shared of him. I am thankful I also had that opportunity to know him for just a short while, but with the care I get, I know he was well taken care of! Thank you and please be well.